We apologize, we don't think we understand the question. However, we advise you first to correctly identify what constitutes the Little Age that you are. Littlespace isn't about choosing a number. Littlespace is about having a childlike personality (along with feelings, thoughts, desires). A Regression Age is merely an effect of being a Little, as it's more of an abstract concept.
-LittleFox1 wrote:my general age is toddler, [...] and neither of us know much about toddler
We think that you and your partner would benefit by reading the resource:
What is my Little Age?
We also suggest that you discuss with your partner what you activities would seem most appropriate for each other., that make each other feel most welcome and comfortable.